Turning Ordinary into Extraordinary
Jan 11, 2023We often hear the phrase "extraordinary" associated with grand, world-changing events or people. But is it possible to find extraordinary within the seemingly mundane?
We all have moments when we feel ordinary, like we're not special or don't stand out from the crowd. But the truth is, we all have extraordinary qualities within us. You just need to tap into them.
Here are a few ways to turn the ordinary you into extraordinary.
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Find the extraordinary in yourself. Reflect on your strengths and accomplishments. We often focus on our shortcomings and compare ourselves to others, but this can obscure the unique talents and abilities we possess. Taking a moment to reflect on the things you're good at and the achievements you're proud of can help remind you of your own extraordinary qualities.
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Discover your passions. Many people feel ordinary because they don't have a sense of purpose or something that sets them apart from others. Finding activities or hobbies that you're passionate about can be a great way to tap into your sense of self and unlock something extraordinary about yourself.
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Learn something new. Often when we feel ordinary it is because we are not striving for something new. Trying something new can make you feel more alive, give a sense of accomplishment and can be a great way to discover hidden talents and strengths you didn't know you had.
- Find extraordinary in others. Sometimes, people are overlooked because they don't stand out in a crowd. But when we take the time to get to know them, we may find that they have unique talents, passions, or stories that make them truly extraordinary.
- Create extraordinary experiences. We often think of extraordinary events as something that happens to us, but we have the power to create them ourselves. This can be as simple as planning a special day out with loved ones or finding new ways to make our daily tasks more interesting.
- See the extraordinary in your job. We spend a significant portion of our lives working, so it's important to find meaning and purpose in what we do. This can be done by setting challenging goals, developing new skills, or finding ways to make a positive impact on others through our work.
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Seek feedback or mentorship. Often we can't see the extraordinary in ourselves because we're too close to it. Seeking the opinion or guidance of others, whether it be through feedback from a colleague or mentorship from someone more experienced, can help provide a fresh perspective on our own strengths and abilities.
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Volunteer or give back to the community. Giving back to others can be incredibly rewarding and can also provide a sense of connection to something greater than ourselves. By making a difference in the lives of others, we can find a deeper sense of purpose and fulfillment in our own lives, which can make us feel more extraordinary.
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Practice gratitude and mindfulness. Sometimes when we're feeling ordinary, it's easy to get caught up in what's not working or what we don't have. Practicing gratitude for the things in our lives and being mindful of the present moment can help shift our focus away from what's missing and instead highlight what's already extraordinary in our lives.
Remember, extraordinary doesn't always mean grand or extraordinary in the traditional sense, but rather something that is special and meaningful to us. By learning to see the beauty in the ordinary and finding the extraordinary in ourselves, others, and our surroundings, we can elevate our everyday lives and create a more fulfilling existence. It's all starts with opening our eyes and minds to the possibilities that are all around us.
Remember, extraordinary is not about being perfect, it's about being the best version of yourself, keep exploring, keep learning and keep growing.